I’ve always wanted a rich husband. I like tall guys. They use other people’s profiles and make you think they are real, but in fact they are most likely from another country. It's not like he's a bad guy or anything, I'm just not that attracted to him. All rights reserved. Cancelled flying to see me 3 times because of this project … It comes down to how long you have been in the relationship. But I did send him a birthday gift and Christmas gift. To me personally, even if I was dating someone locally and they asked me for money after a short time (whether they thought we were meant for each other or not), I would be concerned. We didn’t want for anything….So when the time came to marry, I told my parents to look for a man whose family was very well off. In regards to money, I have often heard it said, “Don’t loan money unless you don’t care about getting it back.” This is even in regards to family or friends since it often causes a rift in the relationship should one not abide by their (all too often) verbal agreement. But let’s pretend for a moment they are not one of these types of scammers, and they are not from a foreign country.

He’s very overweight and says he’s afraid to meet me because of that. And if you choose not to give them money and they get upset, then that reveals even more about who they are. Better yet let’s make it $50.00He likes you, sure, but in the back of your mind, you feel like he might actually like your money more.As a matter of fact, he depends on your money, and he isn’t afraid to let you know it.He’s always asking you to borrow money, but you both know you’ll never get it back.

What do you? Viewing 25 posts - 1 through 25 (of 57 total) This is the First online people finder Guy Im Dating Asked To Borrow Money service for both men and ladies. I helped my niece get an apartment once and loaned her $600 I never saw that money again. Money is tight, you get laid off, and you can’t seem to get a call back from the employers you interviewed for.That’s a, “I don’t have a lot of money to spend on dates right now, so you might have to pay the check this time” type of scenario.That shouldn’t be that big of a deal if you’ve known each other for awhile.What I’m talking about is a man that’s unemployed, doesn’t have money, or seems always to lose his job when he gets one but appears to be happy with his current situation.If you notice that your boyfriend doesn’t seem to be embarrassed or a little shy about asking you to borrow money or carry the weight of paying all of the expenses in the home you share then he’s probably okay with the way things are.No real man will be satisfied with anyone, let alone his woman financially taking care of him.This is one of the clearest signs your boyfriend is using you for money that there is.In fact, most men have trouble even asking someone for help, and when they do they make sure to repay them ASAP.Which is why our next sign is also a pretty good indicator that’s he’s using you.“Can I borrow $20.00? He knew how to get to my heart. He doesn’t seem to be able to find a decent job no matter how hard he says he tries, and things are not looking any better for the near future.Now don’t get me wrong, he could just be down on his luck right now.It has happened to the best of us. 2 is a coincidence, and 3 is a pattern.People usually create patterns and this pattern is a pattern of lies.Trust me, you’re not being overly suspicious. Asking for a loan is a sign that he may see you as a cash machine rather than a real love interest. When I couldn’t afford to buy his children extravagant gifts for Christmas, he avoided me for the entire holiday. Well, it wasn’t very much money, so I helped him with that too. Why he came to me! I NEVER ask a guy for money. This is an absolute no. It just doesn’t sit well with me to give a guy I’m dating money. Viewing 25 posts – 1 through 25 (of 57 total) 1 2 3 → Author Posts April 23, 2016 at 12:00 am #527189

Well, it will come down to where your relationship is.